Sherry Grahm

About me: I am a 40+ year old CD who adores being as fem as possible. There are always limitations but I do my best. I am looking for friends to share this side of myself with. I like girls who appreciate looking good and the effort it takes to be fem. My Bio: Well.... Where to start. I think after you read this, you'll agree that my childhood and upbringing predisposed me to having an attraction to pretty women's clothing. At age 5, I would play dress up with the neighbor girl and I immediately became hooked on the feeling of panties, lace slips, bras, and silk hosiery. The development of a fetish and its progression to completely portraying a beautiful woman as a form of relaxation and sexual excitement is still a mystery to me. All I know is that in reading other Transgendered individuals profiles I fall in the middle of the bell shaped curve in comparison. I consider myself a Cross Dresser. I have no inclination to become a TS or to undergo SRS. I LOVE wearing women's clothes and pretending that I'm pretty, but I would never exchange my male life for a woman's (there are too many wonderful things about being a guy). As most TVs, I dressed throughout puberty, and dealt with LOADS of guilt in trying to figure out what was "wrong" with me. I eventually did work through it, and finally accepted who I was. A person who could enjoy the clothes of the opposite sex and one who could look in the mirror at my fem self and enjoy the person looking back (heck, I was even turned on by her). Throughout college and graduate school my fetish was just that, a fetish. I would dress in frilly and sexy underthings and "enjoy" myself. But there was always a desire to take it to another level. I was pleased to find out that when I did finally take that step, and dress completely as Sherry the first time, I was completely hooked. I knew that this desire to become as sexy as possible was never going to leave me. Jim Bridges in North Hollywood has to take all the credit for "the birth of Sherry". He is a wonderful make-up artist and has since become a very influential and wonderful person to the TG community. I like to say I was one of his first TVs that he did make-up on. He is still a wonderful friend. He also taught me all my make-up techniques. Since that wonderful night 20 years ago, I've tried to refine my looks; and, lately I've been trying to see how many different looks I can pull off. Its fun to have different looks. For me, it's the transformation. The changing of my male self into Sherry is the most erotic feeling I experience as Sherry. Recently its been hard to find time for Sherry. Work and other pursuits don't leave a lot of time. But, I'm so happy to have found the internet and to now be able to meet so many wonderful people. I love the people in this community and I hope to make many friends. More later. Love, Sherry